Are you perplexed about how to make sense of your life experiences? Are you grappling to understand why things are happening the way they are?
You can gain new perspective, clarity and insight about your life's challenges by understanding the life lessons your soul chose to experience.
When you don’t understand why you’re experiencing difficult circumstances or challenging relationships, you can feel like a victim instead of a powerful creator of your own experience. Do any of these circumstances describe you?
- You’re perplexed about why you’ve attracted certain experiences into your life and have been attracted to other experiences. You’re frustrated that you keep experiencing negative recurring themes and you don’t know why or how to change it.
- You’re wondering why certain people are in your life and whether it’s just a coincidence. Some appear at just the right time with just the right thing for what you need at that moment. And you feel a strong connection with them—as though you’ve known them forever.
- Other relationships are causing you disharmony and discomfort and you don’t know how to resolve the issues between you. You long to uncover, understand and heal what’s causing you pain or disconnection from your romantic partner, parent, child, family member, friend or business partner.
- You’re curious about why you can’t seem to resolve health issues and what you can do to shift them.
- You’re fearful or confused because you’ve been taught the religious belief that we’re here to learn lessons. If we don’t learn them, we’ll be punished. If we do, we’ll be rewarded.
When I contacted Barb, my husband and I were having a lot of marital struggles. We have gone through a lot in the past few years, had twins very soon after we were married, and had been unable to stay connected. We had attended couples counseling but stopped going and were considering divorce. I was intrigued when I heard about the Akashic Records from a friend. I did some research and read testimonials of people who said that getting an Akashic Record Reading had been life changing for them. I wanted to find some peace and discover where my path was headed and if my husband and I had a compatible future.
Barb did a Relationship Reading that shared what both my husband and my soul’s gifts are, what the life lessons are that we are here to experience in our relationship, and identified and cleared the energetic blocks and restrictions that exist between us.
It’s been two months since the reading and it’s almost been unbelievable what’s happened.Our marriage is better than it’s ever been in 5 years. It’s made a drastic difference. We are showing more compassion towards one another and being kinder to each other. His relationship with our kids has improved and they are bonding better than ever before."
I met Barbara shortly after losing both my parents within a few months. I was not just grieving their loss, but also dealing with much unresolved anger and hurt. I felt lost and unanchored and stuck in my personal life and in an unfulfilling job. I recognized patterns in myself that I did not like that were causing me to repeat negative behaviors and struggle with relationships. I was (am) very much in a state of transition after spending a lifetime of being a daughter, sister, wife, mother, employee; I wanted to discover who and what I was meant to be and to find meaning in life.
With Barbara’s compassionate coaching, I gained insight and understanding in what experiences and lessons I am here to learn in fulfilling my soul’s purpose. I find sense and meaning in everyday experiences and people I meet and see life through an entirely different lens: with clarity and faith and courage. I have attracted more positive people and situations in my life, and my relationships with my husband and others have greatly improved. I have even made new friends.
Although my original intent was to find direction and focus and purpose, the main benefit has been the overwhelming healing I have experienced since my Akashic Records readings and healing and clearing meditations. I am much more at peace with myself and face situations and the future with anticipation and positivity, as opportunities rather than with fear and anxiety and anger. I look at others in my life with a whole new outlook and perspective; that we are all here to help each other grow, learn, and evolve - and most importantly, love. I feel surrounded by love and support and guidance.
I did have a very happy and unexpected surprise after my work with Barbara. My gifts and talents and passions as communicated to me were very consistent with what I believed them to be and how I had been using them. Putting them into practice and in the right environment in a positive way was another matter. Although I intended to start winding down my career and consider retirement and volunteer work, a person from my past coincidentally contacted me out of the blue, and I received a job offer. It is not exactly the path I expected or was even looking for; but I felt it was no accident and meant to be, and I am in a much more respectful and satisfying work environment.--KB
I can help you discern and embrace your life lessons from your soul's perspective.
These life lessons can show up in many life areas and impact your relationships with your romantic partner, family or friends, your profession, finances, health and well-being, personal and spiritual development, rest & relaxation, physical surroundings, or community.
Do you yearn for a more meaningful or closer relationship with a person who deeply impacts you on your path? Our relationships are designed to help us to experience our life lessons. Knowing why we’ve chosen to experience each other helps us to gain new insight and shift our perspective; which in itself, can facilitate the healing process.
You can gain insight and perspective on who each of you are from a soul perspective, what your innate gifts are, why you’ve chosen to experience your lives together and the life lessons or themes your relationship supports.
Health & Well-Being
Our life lessons may also be showing up in our state of health and well-being. We can use our pain and suffering, our life challenges, physical illnesses and emotional wounds as one of our greatest teachers.
You can learn how you may be blocking the flow of creative energy through your body that’s causing physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual symptoms. And you can learn how to holistically clear these blockages so that you can more freely express and share your gifts with the world and experience the positive aspect of your life lessons.
Throughout the past year and a half, my husband and I experienced the tragic loss of my daughter, and then six months later the recurrence of his throat cancer. Losing a beloved child left me feeling many days as though I could not go on. The news that my husband's cancer had returned left us both reeling, feeling hopeless, and at times, panic stricken. We had no choice but to continue moving forward as we were now parenting my daughter's two sons.
Barb, my sister-in-law, reached out to me to offer her gifts of spiritual healing and insight into what my soul may have chosen to learn in this life. She also reached out to my husband and helped him process what was happening to him and what his soul may be learning from his experience from such physical and emotional pain.
Through her gentle coaching, her genuine compassion towards us, and honest concern for helping us move forward to finding meaning amongst all of this tragedy, we began to understand that there is soul-level meaning and purpose to what we were experiencing. We are still scared sometimes, and still suffer, but we now understand that our experiences are part of a much larger plan that we have chosen for our ultimate transformation. We extend to Barb our deepest gratitude of helping us through some of our darkest hours and we will always be grateful to her.
Brian and Becky